I have been dating a guy for two weeks. I was truly not sure what to do about him.
On one hand, I enjoyed spending time with him. He was fun to hang out with and respected my physical boundaries. I remember going to a party with some church friends and wishing I would have invited him to join us.
On the other hand, I had some concerns about his spiritual walk. While I think he would have meshed with my friends I worried that he would not be able to step up and be the leader I desired.
Confused if I should continue spending time with him and potentially get more serious OR if I should end it I decided to pray about it.
I sat in my sunday school room and prayed to the Lord about what direction this relationship was supposed to go. I explained to God that I wanted to continue seeing this guy but if God had other plans that the guy I was seeing would end the relationship because I was not strong enough to do it on my own.
5 hours later, the guy I was seeing ended the relationship via. text.
I was a little hurt but also thankful. I was thankful things ended now before I spent more time and energy with this guy. I am also thankful that the Lord answered my prayer so quickly. When it comes to matters of the heart💖, I sometimes have difficulty discerning God's will vs. my own.
"Give thanks in all circumstances~ for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus. "
~1 Thessalonians 5:18
"This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything in his will, he hears us. and if we know that he hears us~ whatever we ask~ we know that we have what we asked of him."
~1 John 5:15
The Lord answered my prayer. I guess this guy is not the right one for me. I will continue to seek the Lords face as I continue on this adventure.
~Sunny :D
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