Men Only!

Amazing women of GOD are waiting for you.  Scripture is very clear that our job is to wait and your job is to pursue.   However, you need to make sure you are ready and worthy of an amazing women of GOD before you begin to pursue her.

What are we looking for?

           

“Now I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of every woman is man, and the head of Christ is GOD.” ~1 Corinthians 11:3.   “For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church.” ~Ephesians 5:22.   You are supposed to be the head of the household.   Godly women are looking for a guy they can respect and look up to.  We want a guy who is so in love with GOD that the woman feels safe trusting the decisions of her husband in regards to her life.  If you do not have a strong walk with the LORD we can’t consider you.   

           

“If anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for his immediate family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” ~1 Timothy 5:8.  We are looking for men who can provide.   We are looking for a man who has a good, stable job.  We are looking for a guy who is a good steward with his money and will offer us a stable life.    Yes, it is 2014 and most women have careers and will financially contribute to the income.  However, we DO NOT want to be the bread- winners.   

“Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you life with your wives and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.” ~1 Peter 3:7.   We are looking for guys who earnestly care about us and will treat us with dignity.    We are looking for the guy who is attentive to our needs and thoughtful toward us.   If you are rude or unkind a Godly woman who knows her worth will not consider you.

             “Husbands, love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”~ Ephesians 5:25.   Love us.  I know this sounds simple but you need to love us as much as you love yourself.  We are looking for a guy who is considerate and will put our best interests at heart.   We are looking for guys who are willing to do things we enjoy doing.  Take an interest in things that matter to us. 

            Men….  I am asking you to please be mature before you pursue us.  Please remember that we want to get married but at the same time we know the things we are giving up to become your wife.  We are trading in our freedom, control over our finances, our last name and our bodies (if we have kids) to become your wife.   A woman who knows her worth is not going to trade that all in for any old guy.  “He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.” ~Proverbs 18:22. 

Love GOD, get a good job and prove yourself worthy of us.

~Sunny :D